到底怎么了

明明冷淡了，明明伤到你了，

却说你不懂他，不体贴他，管制他。

本来晓得情理的你是那么的委屈和不甘，

一切不要做了，非要问个明白。

不说明白，不可以做别的事，

难道，伤了心，男人一点自责都没有吗？

男人开始怪女人不懂事。

怪他不懂得珍惜。她要是不珍惜你，

会有这样的伤心吗？

请想好再说。一切的一切，

不就是因为女人已经深深的爱上你了吗？

不就是希望你多陪伴一些吗？倘若她爱的是别人，

就算是你一辈子的怠慢，一辈子的疏忽她，

又有什么关系呢？

A Boyfriend?

Hi, good afternoon! 

As I promised, I will keep on updating my blog because blogging have so much fun 

than facebooking! 

Imma an active blogger LOL! 

Back to topic:
 Relationship 

I guess all couple run into relationship issues.  It's the rare the couple that doesn't. 

Sooner or later, all couple will run into a few bumps in the road. 

Sometimes, they just don't know what to do to make a good relationship and me neither. 

And today I found out on Facebook, one of my friend posted a interesting post about how to become a good boyfriend and girlfriend. I had read through the post and found out that it's quite useful 
as a guidance for couple. 

So I decide to re-post at here and share with you guys. 

How to become an eligible boyfriend 

1. Always remember that you're a man, not a boy.

2. Man must responsibly.

3. Do not be a playboy.

4. Always bear in mind about your responsibility, which is treat your girlfriend well.

5. To be able to torelate all the mistakes that girlfriend made. While many people are aware of this, but very few people can really do this.

6. Do not use break up to threaten your girlfriend, love is not a bargaining chip.

7. Always remember girlfriend's good, do not wait for her to leave then only think of her gentle.

8. Be attentive and considerate, few people would like carelessness.

9. Dating with her is your bounden duty, yet you can not treat the date as a job.

10. In the eyes of others, your girlfriend may not be the most beautiful, but in your own eyes, she must be the most beautiful.

11. There is no best, only the most appropriate one, to find the right do not let go.

12. Holding her hand when crossing the road.

13. After a quarrel, no matter who is at fault, within 24 hours, give her a call, and voluntarily admit your mistakes.

14. No matter how your family background, you have to remember, she is not in love with you because of your family.

15. Eat whatever she fed you, and you'll just feel tasty and good.

16. Believe in her every word. If it is unreasonable, calm down and find a opportunity to have a proper conversation.

17. Give efforts to fit into her lifestyle.

18.  Friendly towards her friends and also treat them as your friends.

19. Let her friends think that with you, she is blessed.

20. To accompany her to do everything she was willing to do, perhaps, very childish things  but from another point of view, it is cute and you'll like her innocent.

21. Put away your bad mood, only shows optimism and smiling in front of her.

22. Give her a surprise once in a while, do not let life make your love lose it's luster.

23. Appreciate every opportunities together with her.

24. Regardless occasions, do not be shy nor feel bored to her you love her.

25. Help her to write down the next day to do things and to remind her.

26. Remember to always praise her.

27. Don't put all the stuffs in your heart, share with her and remember she's together with you.

28. Tell your parents about her, you have an obligation to let parents know she's there.

29. Favorite all the gifts she gave you even if only a small greeting card.

30. Communicate with her ​​parents to give them a good impression, so that they can trust you.

31. Tell her how to communicate with your family.

32. Let her see the hope of the future.

33. Never cheat her on your problems, be honest to her.

34. Do not suspicion when she say love you.

35. Plan your future with her.

36. Listening to your girlfriend, then man would amount to anything, so you have to obediently listen to her words. (This is fact )

37. If she cried in front of you, remember always there for her until she break through her tears.

38. Give her lessons if she done wrong, but after than must sayang her back.

39. When her mood is awful and outrageous temper, hug her instead of debate.

40. Be brave and propose to her if you want to, do not be afraid to be rejected.

Originally wanted to share girlfriend's responsibility as well but it is damn too long LOL 

So guess I shall separate into two parts and post it up later. 

Hey guys! This is a must-read post! Even I know that impossible for guys to fulfill 
all the requirements above... 

But make sure you guys really LOVE your girlfriend, from the bottom of your heart.



Till next time...

那些经历与回忆

我创建这个部落格的只是单纯的想用文字记录下我的生活。我的心情。我经历过的事情。

遗留下自己的感悟。

好想让一切都停留在一个时间段里。定格。静止驻足。爱上照相，那些温暖的画面，被镜头定格下来。无论过了多久，时间终会记得这些美好的。

而我，或许会在某年某天，重新再把它想起。看起那年的老照片。那时，回忆定是充满温暖的。

最近的海滩之旅，我们说过的，做过的，一起经历过的亦成了我们重要且甜美的回忆。

到达海边的时候，我们难以掩饰兴奋的心情，手牵手奔向大海。一直说的想要看海，终于看到了。

所以当站在海边那时，我的心情真的很澎湃，很感动。你的心情呢？

站在无边无际的海边，才发现，人是那么的渺小。当一阵阵海风迎面吹来，每一个不顺心，压力和烦恼都都随着那风，离开我们了。我们牵着手一直走向远方。海浪一层一层的打过来。那海已经慢慢在朝我们接近，然而我们却仍然不停的走，直到夕阳落下才肯作罢。那天的夕阳真的很美。

我们来到这座城市的这个角落，享受着那难得的宁静和安宁。虽然短暂，可是却是满足的。

第2天早上8点。拉开窗帘。一缕阳光搁浅在我的眸中。那无边无际的海尽收在我的眸中。喜欢这样温暖的阳光与风景。喜欢一切温暖的东西，让我们的心情变得美好。

离别的时候又到了，我们也收拾那不舍得心，准备好出发。

车一直在前进，风景一直在后退。有些东西转瞬即逝。有些东西一直深深的记在脑海里。时间依旧如流，可那珍贵的回忆，想起来，依然是那么的历历在目。

A sweet escape: Take me Away

Hello my blog~ It's been a while since my last post. 

Actually, my life was dull in the early of October, nothing special happened, that's why I never update my blog until today, I have a lot of thoughts and feelings wanna share with other peoples, thus, I am sitting in front of my laptop and updating my blog with this post.

Recently, my love life seems abit dull and boring. I was wondering why all the passion and attraction between us seem to be slowly fade out? Is it because over the time, the feeling between us will become dull and stable? I'm not saying that this change is bad, but for me I always hope that my relationship can be more and more exciting as the time flew. Every girls hoped so, am I right?

When I was so worrying our relationship, I was totally overlook that we gonna have a first trip away together on 20 till 21 October (Saturday and Sunday), which is 2D1N trip to Goast Coast Morib Resort.

The time really flies by so quickly, we booked the resort on August and during that time, I was so anxious and cannot wait. I kept complained to him that why the time passed so slow and blah blah blah~

And today, we already backed from Gold Coast Morib short vacation.

Gold Coast Morib trip was the first trip I went as couple. I always heard that couple went for a vacation together and improve their relationship to the better. However, a couple's first trip away together can be romantic upgrade, amazing or just ruin. Some vacations can go from bad to worse; some can go from bad to better; and some are just simply delightful.

Luckily and happily, our trip to Gold Coast Morib was simple yet pleasant. Although we only spent a short amount of time at there, but there are a lot unforgettable luscious moments that brought us back together again. 

Both of us managed to break from our daily routine and relax ourselves at Morib, especially him, I knew that he is under a lot of working pressure and really tired. I'm so glad that we had this short vacation, no regret.

Day 1

Scenic view from our room's balcony, simply amazing.

I falled in love with the bed design, simple yet nice.

Spot the Jacuzzi not me.

Selca is a must do after checked in!

Captured by him, I was busy selca during that time LOL

Set off to Water Theme Park!

I never brought my phone along to the theme park because bringing around a phone make me cannot fully enjoy the fun! So here's the after theme park photo. 

After cleaning up ourselves, we went to beach for a walk and ATV riding before our buffet dinner.

Paronama function of Samsung S3, the function do surprise me, it is good to be used for capture landscapes photo, but still thanks to my dear to have such good skill to help me captured down this perfect photo.

My turn to show off my photography skill, BUT FAILED! One of his arm just fade out LOL!

Like this photo, I'm such romantic girl in this photo HAHA

ATV riding, this is the small size one, they also provide the bigger size as well. However, we ride it for free due to the package we bought, 1 ride for 5 minutes, DAMN limited! 

If I'm not mistaken, 1 ride for the small ATV is RM30, as for the big one, is RM50.

He always like to have some weird expression on his face, acted like a weirdo when taking photo.

I'm so macam yes in this photo!

 In fact I was driving the ATV slowly and afraid of crash and fall.

The happy kid enjoy riding on ATV.

Candid shot by me! 浪迹天涯的感觉

Keep moving on, escape from city life. credit to MR ANDY

The sunset, make me calm and relax. Its so blessed when walking under the sunset with him.

I'm a happy kid now, get ready...

... and JUMP! 

Why you chok alone there, Mr Andy?

Hi Mr Andy.

Another candid shot by me, special thanks to Samsung S3 panorama function! 

I'm so addicted to panorama now!

A series of patterns photos by MR ANDY #1

 #2

 #3

 #4

#5

 Its my turn. #1

 #2

#3

 Enjoy the sea breeze.

Couple shot, thanks to the stranger who helped us took this picture.

 My favorite photo of the day.

 Hi that's me (with non make up pale face) LOL

After walking by the beach, we went for our dinner buffet at the resort. 

The restaurant's name I had forgotten, yet the foods they prepared are delicious, especially the japanese cuisine, Tempura and Miso Soup. 

Day 2

The second day was simple, we woke up at 8 a.m. After finish prepared ourselves, we head out to have our breakfast. The resort had prepared many different cuisines for the guests, so far the foods are okay for me, but not delicious as compare to last night dinner buffet. We had a quick breakfast then went to beach again to enjoy the scenic once again before to return to home.

 Walking by the beach.

 The Michael Jackson's pose.

 The panorama AGAIN!

 My boy.

 Our bare foots.

 Couple shot by another stranger. Thanks!

 Met this little cute baby at the beach. He was walking around to tried to find some sands to built up his little castle. He originally wanted to walk closer to the sea to collected sands, yet the wave scare him out, thus he running back to his parents. How cute he is!

 Enjoy the scenic before we going back.

 Bye bye Morib.

 Discovered the baby crab! Super mini size that I afraid he might broke it's mini legs.

Andy and Carmen were at Morib.

 Pig face with the love vestige.

 He admired my awesome handwriting, HAHAHA!

He tried so hard to wrote a "爱你", he is so cute when getting serious on something.

 Photo of the post to end this super duper long post. 

Basically this post is just full of photos, hope you guys have patience and finish the post!

Till next time...